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Ro's avatar

The desire to move away from all this was all about individual freedom, something we should all value. Heterosexual people got enormous benefits. Sex restriction is a way to totally control absolutely everyone, just as you show here. I didn’t really use/need most of these freedoms, primarily out of personal preference (LOL heterosexist cisgender traditional norms can fit your personal inclinations) but it’s wild so many people DO NOT UNDERSTAND THIS. They talk about these changes people advocate as if they are ‘forcing’ people to do something or it involves deception. No, it’s the opposite. It’s the promise to the end of forcing people, lying to people, controlling them, manipulating them, deciding how they should live, and harming and even killing them as a result.

Why do more people not understand this? Sexual and gender control is control of everybody. Sexual and gender freedom is freedom for everybody. There are a million examples, many of which benefit the lives of all heterosexual cisgender people. As I see it, it analogizes to religious freedom but it’s too much work to do that argument, and people don’t care about religious freedom anymore. But that’s because it worked. And we are all better off as a result. We must make sex and gender freedom work too. There’s no downside, except for those who wish to unjustly control others.

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I appreciate your reasoned arguments and historical points. I was a federal employee active in a LGBT group in DC for 20 years. Even interviewed Frank Kameny (gay rights hero, google him!) and Barney Frank (gay congressman back in the nineties). So I am familiar with some of the garbage policing of non-conforming people (and women & minorities) in the federal bureaucracy. The hateful anti-DEI stuff that’s been happening these past few weeks under tRump is horrific. Unfortunately, public discourse today on these issues is often strident, of the “no debate’ type. We need ‘deep listening’ to others but I’m losing hope in our species, sadly. Some can create beautiful music and art but others are focused on mindless hate and destruction of others & the environment.

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